Even sceptics have experiences…

Being A Sceptic Is Oh So Easy

Announcing the winner of the Goodreads competition for a signed copy of Being A Sceptic Is Oh So Easy

congratulations to Kyla Imrie from Toronto and thank you for entering!

If you have ever had an isolated experience that you can’t explain… here is the true story of why I am no longer a sceptic, where I share many of my experiences. I also talk about deja vu, coincidences, instinct and luck – how I think these things fit into our daily lives.

Since launching this personal account so many people have contacted me to tell me about their own experiences, sometimes sharing for the very first time something they could not explain away.  You see, it’s easy being a sceptic – it’s coming out that is the hard part.

I can understand that for two reasons.  It’s a huge leap, no matter what you have experienced and you have to be ready to take that next step on your journey towards understanding.  For most people you grow up believing this life is everything.  The other reason is that even ‘seeing is believing’ doesn’t stop your mind from trying to apply logic that will over-ride something that was quite real when it happened!  If you think about it, it’s illogical to acknowledge something, then dismiss it because ‘well, there must be some simple explanation; tired eyes, trick of the light’ – even wishful thinking if it involves a loved one passed over ….

The point at which I had to take that next step was when my husband and I were sitting together and witnessed the same thing.  We didn’t talk about it until a week later, such was the impact but slowly we were both to learn that loved ones really are by our side and helping us in ways we could never imagine …..

And just a little reminder because I’m so excited –

The Quintessential Gemini was published on June 7, 2012 – by Sapphire Star Publishing.

Some fabulous people have very kindly agreed to host me as I tour the world wide web and this is tour no. 1! Check out the details here if you want to find out what I’m up to.

https://linnbhalton.co.uk/blog-tours/

 

Some things aren’t coincidental…

I awoke this morning to a lovely Email from a wonderful lady I met last year, Susan Livingston.  Susan is one of my Associate Readers over at loveahappyending.com and from the moment we first ‘met’ online it was like talking with an old friend. The Email today was a review that Susan has posted on her wonderful book review blog Fascinating Books, click here to read the full review http://bit.ly/HRqqIz .

Susan is a busy lady, work and family keep her on the go constantly! But she is also a great supporter of new authors, an avid reader and I sense very much there is a yearning to write and an amazing imagination to unleash when she finds some ‘me time’, at some point in her future.  When we first began talking it was mostly about our cats but we seemed to share so many other things in common. So when I read Susan’s review of Being A Sceptic Is Oh So Easy this morning, I wasn’t surprised that we connected too over things that feature in the book.

Writing a true and personal account of something that talks about losing loved ones, experiences since their loss and other psychic experiences, was bound to strike a chord with any readers who have had similar experiences.  In Susan’s words:

“When I read this Being A Sceptic Is Oh So Easybook I was amazed at the things Linn went through to become the person she is today.  I saw so many similarities between Linn and myself and Linn and my sister that floored me.  Reading this book, I began to wonder how we’re all connected.  If we try really hard, can we feel what someone else is feeling? Do we want to do that?  Do we really want to know what others are feeling?  I also began to wonder about the connections we have with those who have passed on.  I know that I have experienced many occurrences where my dad has visited me after his death, mostly just to let me know he’s still watching over me.  I always feel warm and loved when I know he’s been there.
This book was an awakening for me.  So many of these thoughts have flitted through my mind in the past only to escape my grasp.  Now, I know I’m not alone and I can touch these feelings and thoughts.”

Every author is thrilled to receive a review for one of their books, but what I find with this ‘diary’ is that the responses and reviews I receive are touching. It’s not so much about reviewing a book, but connecting with people who reaffirm what I now believe.  Many continue to look for scientific proof, but in all honesty, those who have had personal experiences understand that perhaps some things are not meant to be the subject of scientific analysis. Sometimes proof comes in other ways and perhaps that’s the whole point – love ones connect with us and it’s personal, observers aren’t required or invited for a reason.

So ‘thank you’ Susan, what warms my heart is that you shared a little of your experiences – and yes, our Dad’s are there alongside us. Still as proud, still as loving and always therefore in our thoughts!

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Never in a million years …

If someone had told me I would write a non-fiction book, I would have laughed hysterically! I always knew I was going to write fiction and secretly felt I would find a way to get published somehow (being a Gemini with a borderline obsessive compulsive nature and iron will, lets just say I don’t give up easily), but always it was about romance, life and relationships. Hence ‘Life, love and beyond … but it’s ALWAYS about the romance…‘, because it really IS!

Never in my dream was there any reference to ‘memoir’. Well, Being A Sceptic Is Oh So Easy isn’t really a memoir, it is to my mind just a collection of experiences and thoughts, a sort-of personal diary.

Being A Sceptic Is Oh So EasyThe reason I’m celebrating it today, is that it is now available for the first time in paperback from:-

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Amazon.co.uk & Amazon.com

and will be available from Amazon as a paperback in addition to the e-format, sometime in the next few weeks.

Every author regards each book they write as their baby, but  Being A Sceptic Is Oh So Easy is more than that to me. I originally penned it after completing the manuscript for my debut novel Touched By The Light.  I was ecstatic and couldn’t wait to get onto the internet and find out what the next step in the process was going to be (yes, I was that naive, I wrote a manuscript without researching what happens after you write ‘the end’). I had an ephiphany and without spoiling the contents, let’s just say that I suddenly felt more like a scribe writing on behalf of someone else looking at my experiences, rather than being the actual author! It really was just an emptying of my mind – things that I had experienced going way back to childhood, that suddenly seemed to make sense. All those unexplained moments I’d hidden in the attic of my mind, until one day they would slot into place, begin to make sense. Once everything was down on paper I tidied it slightly, thinking it would be wonderful for the grandchildren to read when they are grown up. It includes amazing things I experienced when I lost my Mum and Dad, as well as experiences in houses in which I’ve lived. It seemed natural to include some very personal observations about coincidences, deja vu, luck – in essence a personal account (literally) of WHY I believe in life after death.

It never crossed my mind to publish it, but I felt better for having written it and having a paper copy in a box beneath my desk. It sat there whilst my debut novel was launched by Book Guild Publishing and I never gave it another thought. Then something crazy happened. I was new to Kindle and wanted to put out something as a ‘test’. I had a few manuscripts finished by then and decided I would self-pub one to get to understand the process and download it to my brand new Kindle.

Everytime I tried to convert the file, something went wrong. I wasted a couple of anxious days and felt disheartened. At the time I had just begun meditating and during one session the idea popped into my head that I was having problems for a reason. Something drew me to that box under the desk and I pulled it back out and whizzed through it. I couldn’t believe what I had written, so much of it was penned whilst on a weird ‘auto-pilot’ mode, that the words hadn’t actually sunk in. I found myself seeking out the file on my desktop and adding an introduction and the odd addition here and there, then I tried to convert that file – bingo! It worked first time. It was meant to be.

Of course, the first file I put out wasn’t as polished as it should have been and I learnt a valuable lesson. However, it now has a special gleam and an updated e-version is available. If you are one of the 1,000 plus people who have already downloaded a copy and would like an updated one free, just send me an Email. It now has an index (thank you to my fellow author Sue Uden who suggested that for reference) and an addendum with an update following the death of the last ‘oldie’ in my family. He featured in the story and it only seemed right to conclude his cameo appearance.

What has over-whelmed me with my Kindle ‘test’, is the number of people who have read Sceptic and then contacted me to tell me their own, often very similar, experiences. I have felt a warmth coming back from people who often have never ‘shared’ their experiences before and that has been extremely special to me. In fact it was because of several requests from people asking for a paperback copy, that I decided to self-pub in print format.

So thank you to each and every one of you who downloaded Being A Sceptic Is Oh So Easy and if you read it cover to cover you will know me very well by now! But for whatever reason it was never meant to sit in a box under my desk, or live in a folder on my desktop. The truth is, it has also changed my life in many ways – now that the ‘jigsaw puzzle’ of my journey is taking shape.

I have three paper back copies sitting on a shelf waiting for the day my grandchildren are old enough to read the story and the comforting thing is, that means some very special and amazing experiences will not be lost, but will live on. They will get to ‘know’ a little about their great-grandparents and, oh dear, me… I wonder what they will think?

Lou Graham reviews Being A Sceptic Is Oh So Easy

Being A Sceptic Is Oh So EasyI was very surprised to receive a Tweet saying ‘check out my blog, a little surprise….’ from a lovely lady and book reviewer, Lou Graham. I was in bed at the time proof-checking and immediately left my cosy cocoon, donned a pair of rather bright pink, fluffy socks to brave the chilly study. For any author, reading something like this is such a delight – it makes all those hours worthwhile. So a huge ‘thank you’ to the very lovely Lou, whose smiling face always makes my day! Here is an extract of what Lou’s review said, but if you have a moment do click through to her website and read the full article:-

 

“I have searched many times since my early adulthood for some proof that there is more to life than what we see, so I was very excited to read this book. Linn makes it extremely clear in the first few pages that what she has written is not meant to try to convince you of afterlife activity, but is just one family’s experiences. It is so beautifully written, I felt that I was sat in a chair with Linn just chatting to me rather than me reading to myself! The book is so engaging, makes you laugh, cry and want to know more with every page!

All the chapters are very personal and Linn is extremely honest in what she writes. There are some very difficult areas of family bereavements that must have been so hard for her to write, but you can feel the love and passion in the subject matter with each word. I appreciate that Spiritual books are not for everyone, but I certainly feel that this is a wonderful introduction that may make you think of things that may have happened to you that you have never really thought more about, or just a collection of episodes that you will enjoy reading about.”

And this is the lovely Louise:-

“I set up my website to enhance my hobby of reading all sorts of books. I never expected to meet so many lovely like-minded people and become friends with some amazing Authors! If you have a book you’d like me to review, drop me an email at lougrahamii@hotmail.com and I’d happily do that for you.
 
If you are also a huge fan of reading like me, check out http://www.loveahappyending.com where I am an Associate Reader, and AR Coordinator for some great up and coming Authors. We are always on the look out for more Associated Readers to joining our happy family.

Loving every minute of doing my blog and have read some fab books so far. Please feel free to subscribe to my site and keep up to date with what I have been reading! Louise x  

You can find and follow Louise here:-

Nikki Bywater – a paranormal investigator/researcher & Associate Reader

I write psychic romance stories; I write about the way life complicates the path we follow in our quest to find true love.  However, there is always a happy ending– why?  Because, for the most part, I believe we have the ability to make our own happiness.  Fate lays out a path, and sometimes that path will not be easy; often there is pain and tragedy, but we have to learn to enjoy the good things that happen whenever we can – to grab at what brings a smile to our faces; to choose to be with people who are positive in their outlook on life and who inspire us.

As a featured new Author on the new innovative, interactive Reader/Author website:-

 that launched on 29 June 2011, Nikki Bywater came forward as an Associate Reader and we linked up!

Nikkiwas born in Batley West Yorkshire.  She lived in the lovely West Ayton in North Yorkshire and then in Derby.  She has spent time in America (New York), but finally settled in Cheshire in 1998.  She has worked in television as a TV extra/jobbing actress, seeking out small roles to fit in with her busy family life.

Her father is the S.A.G.B medium Terry Tasker and that is where her interest in the paranormal began.  She says she doesn’t yet have the ability to become a medium, but is more of a paranormal investigator/Researcher.   She has featured on the radio with her paranormal work.   She also loves to read, not just books on the paranormal – and that’s how we met.

As my Associate Reader at loveahappyending.com, Nikki read Being A Sceptic Is Oh So Easy, something I never intended to write at all, because my genre is psychic romance and purely fiction – well, that’s almost true.  I often include psychic encounters based on things I have actually experienced myself.

I digress ….. Being A Sceptic Is Oh So Easy is a collection of psychic experiences I’ve had throughout my life (and that are ongoing).  But it also felt right to include my observations about coincidences, deja vu and many other things that contributed to turning me from a staunch sceptic, into a believer in life after death.  To read Nikki’s thoughts after she finished reading my book, please visit her website:-

http://nikkis-books4u.blogspot.com/2011/07/being-sceptic-is-oh-so-easy-by-linn-b.html

You can find out more about Nikki by following her on Twitter or visiting her Facebook Page:-

Twitter A/c @NikkiiNola: http://bit.ly/kkkUQ7 Facebook Page: http://on.fb.me/lLt2ds

I love surrounding myself with people who fascinate me, people who have amazing energy and inspire me.  Nikki is one of those people and I’m delighted that loveahappyending.combrought us together!

Being A Sceptic Is Oh So Easy

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It’s the easy option, isn’t it?   As a sceptic you have nothing to explain or justify; if you see, feel or hear something unexplained, you can tell yourself you have an over-active imagination.  Each experience becomes an isolated memory that you can conveniently file away in the attic of your mind.  Keeping each very separate is the key, your subconscious tells you not to make connections and not to question.  Until one day something happens and you begin to see that it is like a jig-saw puzzle and the pieces begin to fall into place.  The truth is life-changing.

For me the first trigger was when someone else began to share my experiences.  Someone I trusted implicitly, and who was an even bigger sceptic than I was at that time.  But we didn’t talk about it until it had been happening for quite a while, because a part of you understands that when two people have seen the same thing, there is no going back.  Even if you have no idea exactly where this shared knowledge will take you, once you’ve crossed the line and had the conversation it becomes real.

‘Being A Sceptic Is Oh So Easy’ is the true story of the personal journey that has led me to the point where I can say  ‘I believe in life after death’ because of what I have experienced.  It began with experiences in some of the houses I have lived in, some with over 200 years of history and others where I was just a visitor; then the loss of beloved family members triggered new and unexpected experiences.  The grieving process was so hard to bear, but gradually I came to learn that they are still close and their guidance would end up taking me in a whole new direction.  It would also make me take a fresh look at what I had so conveniently ‘filed away’ as unexplained, or imagined and the jig-saw began to take shape.

‘Being A Sceptic Is Oh So Easy’ will be released on Kindle shortly.  If you’ve lost a loved one but have a sense that they are still around you, or had an experience you can’t explain, then take a walk with me on my journey.

Linn B Halton

 

 

 

 

Interesting thoughts & books to make you think, laugh and fall in love …

The mind is a complex thing, so why are we surprised that people can connect on both sides of life?  My novels are romantic fiction – life, love and beyond … but it’s ALWAYS about the romance!

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Many of the psychic incidents in my fiction novels are based upon my own real-life experiences.  My debut novel Touched By The Light (an amusing and uplifting romantic story that twists and turns, making the reader think about life after death) was published in February 2011 – available in hardback only at this time.   My  personal journey – from being a sceptic to becoming a believer in ‘life after death’ – is featured in Being A Sceptic Is Oh So Easy which is available as an e-book & in paperback. The Quintessential Gemini has been described as ‘chick lit’ without the fluff! Published by Sapphire Star Publiishing, it is available as an e-book & in paperback.

All of my novels are written from the viewpoints of more than one character and I enjoy telling the story through the eyes of both the female and male characters…

It took me a long time, and many unexplained incidents, to finally accept that our time on earth is merely to allow us to learn the lessons required to allow our spirits to develop.  What I hadn’t expected was that it would also mark the start of the next stage of my journey.  A journey that would influence my writing, as my personal experiences and understanding grows.  It would also provide a humorous and intruiging addition to my romantic stories.  Let the fun begin!

I live in Arlingham, Gloucestershire in the UK, on the edge of the River Severn with my lovely husband and cat with ‘attitude’ Tiggs.  I’ve been writing novels since 2009.

 So please join me and share my journey, and if you want to share your own experiences with me, then I would be delighted and honoured to hear from you.

Best wishes, Linn

Have you ever wondered ‘where do we go in our dreams?’